Bathing and Dementia: The Challenges and How To Overcome Them
When we think of dementia and Alzheimer’s, we often think of a senior that misplaces items, wanders from home and loses their way, and – worst of all – forgets their loved ones. There is another consideration for those caring for a senior with dementia – bathing.
No matter a person’s mental or physical state, hygiene is of the utmost importance. When that person can no longer safely take care of their own hygiene, there are some challenges that must be addressed by the senior, their family, and their caregivers.
What are some of the challenges?
A person with dementia may refuse to bathe or be resistant to the idea of bathing. While frustrating for the caregiver, this is normal. The senior may have enough cognition to feel embarrassed to need help bathing, or they may genuinely think they have already bathed that day. If this is the case, aim for a full bath/shower twice a week with a washcloth/sponge bath on the other days. Remember, if a bath is daily fight, nobody wins. A senior with dementia and limited mobility is also at risk of slips, falls, and burns from hot water.
Defraying the risks
First and foremost, understand that the senior should retain as much dignity as possible. If they are able to bathe themselves in a shallow tub of water (that the caregiver has prepared to ensure the proper temperature), then let the senior go ahead with the task.
If they need help and cannot be left alone in the bath, be as empowering as possible. Let them choose their shampoo and conditioner, if they want to shower or bathe, and let them have the washcloth or sponge. Fill the tub with bubbles and allow them to enter the water wearing a towel, then disrobe when under the bubbles to reduce embarrassment. Make it a spa like experience with non burning candles (electric or battery) and music of their choice.
Consider retrofitting the bathroom with side entrance door tub, shower grab bar, adhesive anti-slip decals, etc.
Ask for help
Bathing a senior with dementia is quite a task for a family member or friend, but you don’t have to go it alone. You and your loved one may be much more comfortable turning this task over to a caring home aide.
Brought to you by Exquisicare, Care at Home can provide a reliable, compassionate aide for home care, personal care, or skilled nursing services. Having an Exquisicare nurse come to you home to help your senior bathe preserves dignity, increases safety, and helps allow the senior to age in place at home.
To learn more, contact Care at Home by Exquisicare today.
